Christian Dating

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“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find, knock, and it will opened to you.” Mathew 7:7

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When starting out on the dating scene, the most difficult and daunting task will be the approach…

You may know all the signals and the best routines…

When it comes to the most crucial aspect of dating, if you take the time to understand the components…

Broken down the details into the simplest of terms, moving from point A to point B and introducing yourself, you fail…

The only reason for this failure is because we get in our own way; more specifically, self doubt.

We talk ourselves out of the possibility before you even try.

In the rare cases you actually do make an attempt, your uncomfortable or non-confident body language with weak approach tells her, “I’m nothing special, I’m not a man of worth, please turn me down!”

When she sees this she will reject you, not because she did not like you…

Not because she was responding subconsciously to your body language asking her to reject you.

This further justifies your claim that you should have never made the attempt in the first place.

Friend, I am here to guide you through changing all of that.

The first step, is to know how to approach.

Approach angles are very important because when you receive the signal from a woman and are ready to make your approach…

The game plan and as it is in this case the angle at which you approach her is important.

There are three directions to approach the woman from; two which you’ll use constantly, and one direction you’ll only use in extreme situations.

Approaching from the front is the most obvious…

The most direct, and threatening way to approach  is head on.

This is a very direct approach.

You are telling her, “I see you, I am coming to get you.”

While I like to be direct as possible, approaching from this angle does more harm than good.

It is a direct attack on her.

You are moving into her personal “safe” space, which immediately tells her to put her guard up and be ready for a confrontation.

She is now defensive and you’ll have to do some quick talking to get her to drop her guard again.

The only time I suggest the head on approach is when you have direct eye contact with her.

Meaning, you have and are holding eye contact the entire time of your approach.

From the initial contact, to when you introduce yourself your eyes are locked the entire time.

In this situation, you want to move directly towards her in the shortest line possible.

The reason, any hesitation or movement away shows a lack of confidence on your part. That moment of hesitation will cause her to lose interest in you…

Approaching from the side is the most successful and non-threatening.

Why? Because she can see you coming in her peripheral vision or with a
turn of her head, since it is not a direct approach, you’re not seen as a threat.

If she does not welcome your approach she can quickly turn her back,
avoiding confrontation without publicly humiliating you.

It is her polite way of signaling, “Don’t talk to me!”

If she welcomes your advance she will either keep her side to you or turn her body towards you in an inviting matter.

The signal may be small and hard to pick up on, but any movement in your direction is a positive signal.

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